dissociative identity disorder
Dissociative identity disorder (DID) is a trauma disorder wherein the brain adapts to insurmountable trauma by creative means and compartmentalizes the identity of a body as a survival technique.
DID is meant to go unnoticed, so most systems and people around them remain unaware. Covert systems tend to dress/behave the same and mask mannerisms; overt systems express themselves more noticeably.
I’m a dissociative identity disorder (DID) system who’s tired of living covertly. We are learning to be an overt system in order to heal and practice functional multiplicity. Individually, my pronouns are she/her; collectively, we are they/them.
I want to normalize chatter about multiplicity, living life as a system, and increase awareness about the disorder mistakenly referred to as multiple personality disorder or “split personality”. In 1994, psychologists concluded DID, and other dissociative disorders, is a trauma-related disorder and not personality-related — so let’s cut the crap already.
The Darling System is a system of 14, most dormant.
This blog is but a window into our life.

I and Me, in the context of We.
10 March 2022
Two kittens aren’t better than one if you’re neurodivergent
5 March 2022
dissociative. identity. disorder. (a poem)
3 March 2022
Online autism quizzes + tests
2 March 2022
Dormancy: Can DID alters die?
28 February 2022
Adopt kittens in pairs, they said. It’s easier, they said. It’s like raising one adult cat, they said.
28 February 2022
How alters communicate in a dissociative identity disorder system
19 February 2022
My dishwashing routine
18 February 2022
In light of learning about the Hillsong documentary, I decided to investigate potential links with my previous church membership.
11 February 2022
Autism burnout
3 February 2022
Defining "fake" readers highlights ableism, ignorance and the pathologizing of autistic + neurodivergent behavior
29 January 2022
On reading spoilers to books, movies, TV shows
20 January 2022
Single lesbian matches with woman still living with her ex-girlfriend post-breakup
19 January 2022
Single lesbian matches with poly woman on Tinder and accidentally screenshots a Snapchat
31 December 2021